Brotherhood Level: 3-5 Dress Code: Letters/Pledge Uniform "You are not a terrible person for wanting to break up with someone you love. You don’t need a reason to leave. Wanting to leave is enough. Leaving doesn’t mean you’re incapable of real love or that you’ll never love anyone else again. It doesn’t mean you’re morally bankrupt or psychologically demented or a nymphomaniac. It means you wish to change the terms of one particular relationship. That’s all. Be brave enough to break your own heart." "Do it. Doing so will free your relationship from the tense tangle that withholding weaves. Do you realize that your refusal to utter the word love to your lover has created a force field all its own? Withholding distorts reality. It makes the people who do the withholding ugly and small-hearted. It makes the people from whom things are withheld crazy and desperate and incapable of knowing what they actually feel. So release yourself from that. Don’t be strategic or coy. Strategic and coy are for jackasses. Be brave. Be authentic. Practice saying the word love to the people you love so when it matters the most to say it, you will. We’re all going to die, Johnny. Hit the iron bell like it’s dinnertime." Just kidding, these paragraphs were meant to distract you. If you like the random snippets the book is called "Tiny Beautiful Things, Advice on Love and Life" by Cheryl Strayed. Speaking of Love and Life, this is exactly what the Brotherhood is about! This is an event where you get to ask any questions regarding love, dating, sex, relationships and anything within that spectrum to the opposite sex. (I'm hoping for an even gender ratio.) You are required to participate in discussion in this brotherhood; though you are free to how much you would like to share. Usually the more you do, the more meaningful this event will be for everyone and yourself. Brother discretion advised, some of the discussion in this brotherhood may dwell on sensitive topics; and hilarious ones too. **FILL OUT THE FORM** Brothers will need at to submit at least one question (serious) in order to attend the brotherhood. FORM LINK: https://goo.gl/forms/ZELparQ5RYiqUmIx2